Aaaarrgghhh!

Wanna sleep but I can't. Wanna read, but not the one I'm reading. Wanna write, but not the kind I'm writing...

This week has been so very taxing and its only Wednesday??!! Sunday started at 9 am and ended at 6 am the next day, came home just in time to wake Ja and Rayyan up for work/school. Was supposed to send Rayhana to nursery like always, but can't really bring myself up from the bed.. so Ja had to send her too... mengendong Rayhana while sending Rayyan to school, and then send Rayhana before going to work...

Tuesday started a bit late.. but early enough to pick Rayyan up from school, get him fed, changed clothes, and send to Kumon, but not free enough to pick him up from Kumon as I had to go to Klang to continue what I have left off Monday morning... arrived in Klang at 5.30pm and that went all the way to almost 3am.

Then came today... eh jap.. today wednesday kan? yeah.. ook.. was supposed to go to Klang again tonight but waaaay too tired. I still have to do some stuff before it can be passed on to my friend who does the other part of the job.

Oh wait.. I didn't go to Klang on Tuesday... that was the Monday night... yeah.. that's right. Monday night was the time I came back at 3am. hahaha I'm lost.

aaaarggghhh!!! Hantar Rayhana, post office, Seri Kembangan, Jalan Ampang, Rayyan's Taekwondo, Rayyan's Kumon, Klang again... all these to be done tomorrow! and I'm still with this book, and this red pen, reviewing a book draft that is soon to be sent for printing by this Friday... lots more to be done...

aaaarrrrgghhhh!

Weekly Mandarin Class @ RM100 per year

That is just insane! SK Taman Megah has been offering after-school weekly Mandarin classes to their students for only RM100 per year, taught by an outsider. How great is that??!

Now the problem is, most probably that class will clash with Rayyan's Speech & Drama class on Tuesdays. Just picked him from the Speech & Drama class just now and he was happy with what he is experiencing. Only 3 boys in that class, and maybe about 10 girls (maybe more). So far, Rayyan has made lots of new from this class.. friends from Year 1 all the way to Year 6!

On my way to the car just now, a school prefect who walked by us said "Bye, Rayyan!"... that's cool! I asked Rayyan who that was, he said that's Crystal, someone from his Speech & Drama class. Rayyan has been Hi-ing and Bye-ing and has been Hi-ed and Bye-d to by lots of strangers to me in that school. Siap tadi dia suruh I stayed put at the corridor near the canteen so he could just sit around the members of the S&D class, waiting for the school hall to be unlocked.

That's just cool! The older kids there were so helpful and caring.. macam kakak dengan adik... love it!

Bloody Murky Urine

Rasa bersalahla pulak after last night. He went to bed close to 1am still with about 4 more Math booklets to complete. This morning, from the moment he woke up to noon, he must have been going to the toilet like 10 times or more to urinate.

He was continuing with his Math homework when he suddenly started going to the toilet like every 3 minutes. The last couple of times I followed him and saw a tiny pinkish red/ white strand came out while he was trying to pee. He said his pee has been red since this morning and that he had a pain every time he peed in his lower tummy and his penis. His urine couple of minutes after that turned out to be murky brown/ red color.

Apa lagi, terus siap pergi Damansara Specialist Hospital... Punyala ramai... They had a full staff at the A & E trying to entertain each one of us... The waiting area was full. Sampai je kat hospital Rayyan had to go pee again. Just in case, I asked Ja to put on an XXL pull ups for Rayyan, takut tak tahan nak terkencing dalam kereta.

Got the urine test done and found bacteria, protein, and blood in his his urine. His red and white blood cell count was more than 500 units when it should have been 0 to 10. The doctor is also getting the bacteria cultured, to see what bacteria is causing this bleeding. The result of that would probably be ready within a week.

The doctor even called Dr Azizi, Rayyan's paedetrician, to see if the medication she prescribed is suitable. Dr Azizi requested the antibiotic to be Zinnat, instead of Augmentin which was initially prescribed. So it's 200mg or 8 mL of that twice a day.. And PCM syrup for the pain while peeing... Try that for 7 days, come back, test for urine again and see Dr Azizi. That's what we'll do.

Where is Rayyan now? With Ja at BookXcess... Buying more books. Besok ada birthday party for a 2-yo. Great place to buy books as gifts.

Balk je from hospital tadi Rayyan no longer needs to go pee every few minutes. I guess most of the bacteria has been flushed out. Just needs to drink more water.

Telinga Merah

Just punished Rayyan for 1-Not finishing his Kumon homework and 2-Lying to me straight in my face face everyday for the past 3 days about completing his homework.

Kumon gave him 6 Math booklets and 5 English booklets of homework that need to be spread out throughout 6 days during this CNY holidays. Kumon breaks for a week... so about 1 Math and 1 English booklets to do everyday. Each booklet theoretically should be completed within 10 minutes.

Knowing that he's not gonna be doing it everyday, I've spread the homework into 3 days for him to do. At the end of each day, I would ask him if he had finished the work I have assigned him to do. He said yes. And even asked me "you're not going to check my homework?". I said no every time. I thought, let him do the mistakes, and get the teacher to point the mistakes to him and let him correct himself. In fact, that's what Kumon is asking the parents to do.

This morning he was supposed to finish all his his homework. I asked him again this morning before we went for swimming. He said he has finished his work. Again, tonight, I asked him, and he said he has finished them.

Then, just now, I asked him to show me his Kumon bag. I checked, out of 11 booklets of homework, he only completed 2. The rest, he only did the first few pages, and the back page. In the middle semua kosong!

As I was checking each of the homework, I would jentik telinga 2-3 kali and asked to finish the homework straight away. Jumpa lagi homework yang tak siap, I called him again, jentik telinga few times, asked him to buat... jumpa lagi homework tak siap, jentik telinga lagi, suruh dia buat.... jumpa lagi homework tak siap, jentik telinga lagi, suruh dia buat... each and every time I jentik telinga dia, I told him that that was not for the homework yang tak habis, but for the lies he told me about finishing his homework.

Habis merah sebelah telinga, I jentik telinga sebelah lagi. Now both ears are red as he's currently trying to finish all his homework by tonight, or else he can't go to bed.

Cruel? Yes, if the reason is solely for not doing his homework. But for lying - No!

Breastfeeding

I always wanted all my kids to breastfeed as long as possible and wasn't quite successful with Rayyan when he was a baby... Ja only managed to breastfeed him for up to 4 months kot... itu pun campur dengan formula since day 1 since demand overpowers supply :)

Now, with Rayhana, I made sure that Ja breastfeeds her from Day 1.... and guess what... now it's almost Day 800 and she still breastfeeds! Although not exclusively, but maaan... I'm proud but sometimes worried that she may not wanna stop! hehe

World Health Organization (WHO) states that the average breastfeeding around the world is 4.2 years (wow.. which country breastfeeds their kids more than 4 years?) and that they encourage every baby to be breastfed up to 2 years.

Thankfully, for Rayhana, she only requests for the boobs when both she and Ja are on the bed...

Sometimes, I would ask Rayhana.. ada susu ke? you minum air apa? air apa ada dalam t*t*k tu? She would answer... Air Ribena! hahaha and sometimes.. Air Suam!....